Friday, August 28, 2009

Poof! I Can Just Disappear.

I guess just up and deleting my blog was kind of a bitchy thing to do.

Okay...it was a really bitchy thing to do.

But I didn't mean it that way. I was fed up and just said, "Fuck it," and hit Delete. It didn't even cross my mind that I was being a bitch to all my readers and fellow bloggers.

(Oops. My bad.)

So, anyway...

I'm officially announcing the hiatus of Ravings of a Mad Housewife.

I don't know if I'll be back. I'll always write--that's part of who I am--but I don't know if I'll write HERE again.

You guys have been great. You've read my nonsense, left funny comments, and considered me one of your friends. I love you, man!

Signing off.

33 comments:

TheresaG said...

Good idea. I'll miss your posts, but I think this is healthier for you on many levels.
My very best to you, and I hope you will come back to us (when you're ready).

Jodee said...

Well, that sucks that the biach was reading your blog. What some crap! Well, that sucks for the rest of us...one person has to ruin the fun, just like school. Your writings are hilarious:) Best of luck to you and your family!

Kelly said...

Sorry to see you go! But you must take care of yourself first! You will be missed.

Dee Dee said...

Good luck to you. I will miss your blog. Thanks for the closure. Also, I am glad to know I wasn't the only crazy clicking and clicking hopefully that your page would reappear.

kra said...

Gonna really miss reading your blog! (and the cleaning one!! :-)). I hope everything sorts itself out for you and your family.

Lindsay said...

I wish you the best of luck and hope you write again! I have loved reading your blog, and I pray that God blesses you as you take care of yourself and your family. You will be missed :)

RandomWonders said...

Completly understand but am def going to miss your humor and down to the point honesty...goodluck!

LynneFtWorth said...

I will miss you. Hope you Jaci back. Family is lots more important.

The Family said...

you need a break ,but it is too bad it is taking away something that obviously helps you to cope..i will be praying for you and your family as you continue this journey..my daughter introduced me to your blogging and i have really enjoyed your writing...in some way i am sure you will find writing an outlet and help during this time you have a wonderful gift...

the MomBabe said...

You gotta do what you gotta do. Take care of yourself and *hopefully* we'll see you around in the future.

Kelly said...

This makes me wanna cry! I really look foward to your posts. I understand your reasoning though. Good luck w/ everything.

♥Trina♥ said...

I will miss your post, but I can understand. Besides, it isn't like you can't come back someday if and when the time is right.

Lots of positive thoughts will still be headed your way from me. I wish you much happiness and peace. Take care of yourself!

Angel said...

I am so sorry and sad to see you go. You have made me laugh at times I really needed to. There are so many of us out there with various issues that need tending to. Though you will be missed in s many ways, it is very important to take care of yourself. This is something most of us seem to put on the back burner in order to make sure those around us are properly taken care of.
Best of luck to you.

The Wrenns said...

Thank you for coming back to say goodbye--I was worried about you! I think you are doing the right thing--good luck and I hope to bump into your writings again someday!

roy/elisabeth dean said...

You will be sorely missed. Yours is one of the first blogs I read when I started blogging. You have made me laugh, cry, get angry and clean my bathroom!
Take good care of yourself. Hang onto my email address so if you ever need anything at all you can just write.
Prayers are with the 3 of you~
♥,Lilly

Jen said...

I am glad for this. I know this was hard for you. And when you are ready to come back and be the funny, awesome Jaci that you are. I will be here, supporting you all the way!

Queen of Feisty said...

Wow. I will seriously miss your blog. I see you as a strong woman, who has alot of drama in your life.

I hope that you can get things together. I wish you happiness. And I hope that the other woman has a shitty life.

Take care of yourself. I miss you already. From one Jacki to another.

Queen of Feisty.

kay said...

I will miss you! Are you sure? We are like a family. I know a girl has to do what a girl has to do!

I'm Sad!
Kay

Paige said...

I will miss you, but I get it. I hope you come back someday if you can

Pearl said...

i think it is awesome that you pulled the jaci-style skedaddle... again... when i tried to visit your blog and got the 'this blog does not exist' message, i thought, 'hell yeah, blaze of glory, that is so jaci!' but i am glad you reappeared as well.

my unsolicited opinion? start a new blog and be anonymous. obviously you would have to start from ground zero again, but it can be fun to reinvent yourself, right? if you build it, they will come.

i wish you nothing but the best. you know i ♥ you.

Brenda said...

Oh, I will miss you terribly but I understand completely! You are one of my absolute favorite blogs! Maybe the pathetic looser chick that messed with your life and family might someday realize the horrible damage she caused and be truly repentant. Miracles do happen and God can use any situation for good. (I know, I should call people names)

Cathy said...

Wow... I'm gonna miss your posts. I always needed that laugh.. but I understand..take care of yourself and hope to see ya around in the future.. look us/me up if you come back. Take care.

A Musing Mom (Taylorclan6) said...

So sorry about your pain. Been there. Done that. Thanks for the heads up on staying anonymous. Wish I had started sooner.

1. Never tell people in your congregation, neighborhood, work about your blog.

2. Allow yourself to have an alter ego.

Crazy people who stalk suck.

Fun people who stalk rock!

Lora said...

While I'm incredibly bummed and will miss your presence here terribly, I do understand.

(and slightly relieved. I thought either I or my computer was really screwed up last night when I couldn't find your blog)

Much love and even more prayers as you deal...

Kim said...

Sorry to see you go but I understand. I wish you and your family the best.

Optimistic Pessimist said...

This is exactly why I'm afraid to tell people in my real life about my blog. I've gone back and forth about it but I'm afraid it will take away my place to vent and write whatever I feel like.

I think only you can decide what's best for you and if deleting your blog is best, then I think you're making a good choice. Best of luck to you Jaci. I found your blog a little late, but I always enjoyed it. Wishing you much happiness in your life.

Life with Kaishon said...

I hope you are well and you can get thru this very sad time in your life. I can't imagine. I don't know if I have read any of your posts before but I don't recall anything about this event. So sad! Very, very sad!

mommy nurse said...

Wish you well!

Holly said...

So I take a couple of days, get addicted to Farmville on Facebook and the whole world goes to Hell in a hand basket! Will someone please explain to me what happened?

Michelle said...

Ok I totally missed something while being MIA with my own life for a few days. Here's hoping you come back, Jaci -- but in a way that feels right for you. Good luck!

Karol said...

Jaci, that sucks, but I'm glad that you're taking time for you! I really hope that you'll let us know where you'll be writing next!
Love ya woman!

Emily said...

I'm with Pearl, start over anonymously - when you are ready, of course. Or finish writing that book - whatever makes you happy Jaci! :) Warmly, Em

Deanna said...

I'm so glad you came back to say bye bye! I went nutso last week clicking on your link (over and over and over)! I hope everything keeps going well for you and hubster. I'd love to know if you ever start posting again...you were one of the few blogs I clicked on every day to see what was up and what you had to say.

Blessings to you!
~De